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Desire, Erotica, Women (D.E.W)'s avatar

Something about this really resonates with me. I don’t know what it is yet, but thank you for sharing, the honesty is so beautiful and inspiring.

Erika Totten's avatar

That “I don’t know what it is yet” is something, right? Thank you for letting it land before you named it. When you find it can you come back and tell me?🙏🏾

Desire, Erotica, Women (D.E.W)'s avatar

It really is, I’ve been working on sitting with feelings, and not trying to solve them. I will, thank you 🥰

Ser Says's avatar

Beautifully honest...im glad you're allowing both truths to exist as you feel your way through it.

Also....you look fine af on them skates maam!!!

Erika Totten's avatar

I appreciate that Frenn. I shared this essay with him before I put it out in the world and I’m grateful that he was skillful in being able to see and hold both truths with me. It was such a good conversation.

And thank youuu🥰😅 roller skating might have to be my new cardio!

Frankie Lipscomb-Cobbs's avatar

This is really, really beautiful. Lately I've been trying to sit with some mixed feelings about something in my relationship, and you've inspired me to allow those feelings to coexist without judgment of the "negative" ones.

Thank you so much for sharing, and I hope you continue to experience so much abundance!

Tiarra's avatar

I honor you for holding the truth of what present without judgement or shame. And I’m grateful to hear about the abundance that you are experiencing.

Dr. Samantha Rae's avatar

Cheers to allowing yourself to sit in whatever is coming up without needed to figure it out. I’ve been learning myself that emotions don’t always need to be understood often times we just gotta let them pass through us